Saturday, November 23, 2013

Sarah Transfers to OSU

Did I mention that Sarah has transferred to Oregon Sate University this year? It seems that Syracuse wasn't the greatest fit for her last year. It was just too far from home, the East Coast/West Coast culture was too different, there was too much partying for her taste, and she hated the snow. So, now she's back on the West Coast, 1 1/2 hours from home, and immersed in rainy weather once more. Be careful what you wish for, Sarah!


Sarah snagged a room in Halsell Hall, a dorm on the edge of campus (near the stadium) that is solely upper classmen and transfer students. 

    

She is in a suite and has 4 other women. She shares her room with Kyla, who's from Forest Grove. Her other suitemates, Audrey, Meghan,  and Jamie, are from Milwaukie, Stockton, California, and China, respectively. They all get along well, and share a desire for a clean, neat living space. That's a big improvement from her living situation last year. 

 

Her suite consists of four bedrooms, a shared living space, and a kitchenette.

    

Her room is amply decorated with all her favorite things, and feels very homey.

   

One benefit of being in an upper classmen dorm is reduced partying. That bothered Sarah a lot. She's a serious student, and really wanted to be able to focus on her work. Another plus in attending OSU is the number of people Sarah already knows on campus. She has friends from ACMA and from elementary school/Girl Scouts that she sees regularly. She's really enjoying having a social life again. 

She's keeping busy in other ways, too. In addition to her classes for credit, she's taking a yoga class at the fitness center and a jewelry making class at the craft center. I can't wait to see what she makes!

Having Sarah so much closer to home means we can get to her school for campus events, and she's able to come home for holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions. Larry went to campus for Dad's weekend in early November and they had a good time together. They attended the OSU/USC football game - Sarah's first. Larry delighted in explaining the game to her. Unfortunately, USC won, and it wasn't OSU finest performance, but they enjoyed it together.


They also did some shopping, attended a special pancake breakfast, went out to dinner (off-campus!) with Sarah's friend, Liza, and attended a comedy show together. On Sunday morning, they went for a hike, always a favorite father-daughter activity. Silver Falls was beautiful, even in the rain.

 

It's been a positive start to the year. We're looking forward to having Sarah home in a couple of weeks for her birthday!

Friday, November 22, 2013

Me and my cane

I've been having issues with my left hip since my late twenties - 30 years, now. Things have become progressively worse over the years, but since April, I've hit a low point.

Ironically, it was my arthritic knee that sent me to the doctor, at which point he sent me to PT. Now, I've done Physical Therapy before, with mixed results. Mostly, it's helped. But not this time. After three weeks of deteriorating walking ability, crying through sessions, and excruciating pain, I realized I didn't have to keep going. I stopped, hoping my now-painful hip would recover and I'd return to my pre-PT ability to walk. Prior to this, I'd been walking 30 minutes a day in the neighborhood. Now, I was lucky to make it to the corner.

Somehow, I made it through my long-term sub job teaching first grade. I came home hurting every day, and my walking deteriorated as each day passed, but I got to the end of the year. Whew!

Summer held out hope for recovery. With a more relaxed routine, I limped through summer, but did not recover to the degree I wanted. Getting in the water helped, but, still, I was hard-pressed to walk far, or to spend much time at all on my feet. Stairs were especially challenging. (And I live in a three-story house.)

In the meantime, I took a long-term sub job that would put me to work full-time in the fall, again teaching first grade. I was feeling somewhat better, and felt I could handle it.

That schedule, however, proved too much for my physical abilities. Two weeks into the school year, I decided to get a cane. It's helped a lot in taking weight off my left leg. I was able to make it through the day without the level of pain I'd been feeling. (Of course pain meds were helping, too.) After eight weeks, the teacher has returned and I am working one day at a time. My days are shorter, my responsibilities are fewer and less demanding, and I finally have time to go the the doctor!

We're still trying to get to the bottom of it all. In the meantime, my cane is my new best friend!



Here's what I've discovered. Besides helping me walk, my cane has proven more than useful in so many other ways. It can help shut troublesome doors...



... and turn on and off lights.



It can even help to awaken sleeping daughters (although they may not appreciate it).

 

That same daughter might also need an occasional reminder not to do unsafe things. My cane can come in handy for that, as well. 


So many uses for this recent addition to my household. I may learn to be grateful for the excuse to have purchased it. 

Rest up, cane of mine. Tomorrow's another busy day!

Summer in Mobile 2013

Another busy summer has come and gone. Emily's trip to Japan, Girl Scout camp, and visitors filled our days and left us wondering where the time went. Norma came to see us from Arizona, and, at the same time, Pat, Carol, and Raben Reeves were here from Mobile. They were all treated to the delights of  summer in Oregon, a welcome respite from the heat of their home states this time of year.

We, however, weren't so smart. We took our annual trip to Mobile in late July/early August, at the height of heat and humidity. With everything else we had going on, that was the only time we could ft it in. We were able to make the best of it by staying at a motel with a pool and planning trips to the beach where we could cool off in the water. A necessity, for sure, that time of year!

We had plenty of time with family. Daddy celebrated his birthday a few days after our arrival. We got lots of family members together and had dinner - and entertainment! - at a local hibachi restaurant. Our chef was quite the performer!



Back at the house, we had birthday cake, and enjoyed visiting with family.

 

It was fun to watch the cousins having fun together, especially now that they're almost all grown up. It's a different dynamic than when there were little kids interspersed. They don't see each other often enough.

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    Photo: Can you interlace your fingers and your toes? Such a talented daughter!

Larry and the girls spent some time tooling around Mobile, strolling around downtown, and catching the latest IMAX movie at the Exploreum.  I spent most of my time hanging out at the house with Mama, Daddy, and the cats.

 

Mama and Daddy are having a lot of work done to the house, and it was fun to see the way the kitchen has shaped up, as well as new paint everywhere and new carpet. Things are looking good! Larry, as usual, helped with a few repairs, and Sarah put privacy film on the windows by the front door. Both did a lovely job!

Mama decided to go through her cedar chest while we were there, and Emily had a blast trying on vintage clothing from back in Nana's day.

We found a very fashionable lounging outfit straight from the 60's.



The highlights, though, were the robe from her trousseau, and a gown Daddy bought for her while on leave from the army, purchased solely on the basis of sex appeal.

  

We had some yummy seafood one night at Tacky Jack's and Emily spent a lot of time mugging for the camera. She's such a shy soul...




Susan had the family over for dinner one night. She always does a lovely job entertaining my whole family, and it's a perfect opportunity not only for us to see each other, but for for our mothers to have a visit, as well.



In addition to seeing family, we got some beach time in, too. Since the Reeves family spent a few days with us in Portland, they invited us to spend some time with them at Mullet Point. This was the first time Sarah and Emily spent any time on Mobile Bay, so it was a totally new experience for them. We spent a lot of time on the wharf and in the water.

 

They went out on the boat and went tubing and kneeboarding.





Larry and Emily went kayaking.

 

When Larry wasn't geocaching with the girls, he even allowed himself to relax a bit!



While on land, Emily and Rascal bonded big time! He's a very patient dog!



 

I spent my time reading, enjoying the water and the birds, and visiting with Pat and Carol.



Just couldn't get enough of the view!







The Reeves were marvelous hosts. In addition to sharing their bay house with us, we went into Fairhope  one morning for breakfast and shopping. It's been a while since I've wandered around Fairhope, and it has that same feel I always enjoyed. Many of the tried and true shops are still there, while new ones (at least to me) have popped up, as well. We spent a lot of time at Page and Pallette, and Carol and I found an olive oil shop where we both made purchases. And dinner one night at a sushi restaurant in Fairhope was artfully prepared and quite deelish!  

We also spent some time at Dauphin Island. Talk about opposite water experiences. The bay is calm, peaceful, relaxing. The Gulf is relaxing, too, but constantly in motion, with powerful waves  cresting and crashing on the shore nonstop. I really feel like we had the best of both worlds!

Tom and Susan were the consummate hosts, as always.



We visited, played games, spent some time playing in the surf, skim boarding (that would be Emily), and getting sunburned (that would be Sarah). Tom and Ruth Ann were both able to join us at one time or another, and Emily enjoyed sharing her pictures from Japan.



Again, I enjoyed the scenery, and just being away from it all.



 



I think we all appreciated the time to just relax and be together after a very busy summer!

 

One night, Larry got it into his head to launch some hot air balloons from the back deck of the house. He'd come prepared with a dozen or so paper balloons with paraffin blocks that are hooked into the bottom of the balloons and lit. The hot air then fills the balloons, which, when let go at just the right moment, sail away into the night sky. At least that's the concept.

Larry and Tom, scientists and engineers that they are, were really into this. The original idea was to launch the balloons from the beach on the Sound. But it was determined that, even though there was a slight breeze, it wasn't enough to matter, and launching them from the deck, over the tops of surrounding homes, would be just fine.

Some of us were nervous about  catching surrounding houses on fire from airborne ignited fuel sources. And, if the truth be told, we had some dicey moments. It all worked out in the end, but, if there were a next time, I'd opt for open water. It was exciting!

 

 

 

While there, I got a call for a long-term substitute teaching position in first grade to start the year. So, once we were back home, I had a whole week to recover from our trip before unexpectedly going to work. Sure am glad we had such a nice, relaxing getaway!